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[Home](/) 2. [Our Services](/our-services) 3. PTSD & Trauma Counseling in Siler City, NC Our Services # PTSD & Trauma Counseling in Siler City, NC Trauma-informed care as a format — not a technique. Stabilization comes first, the client controls the pace, and we do not start by asking anyone to retell the worst thing that happened to them. ![A person sitting quietly by a sunlit window, hands folded in their lap, in a calm therapy setting.](/__l5e/assets-v1/e1f731d9-8908-47de-a699-b54687981ede/PTSD-Trauma-Counseling.jpg) ## What 'trauma-informed' actually means in this office. Trauma-informed care is a stance, not a method. It means we assume the nervous system in the chair across from us is doing what it learned to do to survive, and we structure the work accordingly. Practically, that shows up as: you set the pace, you can pause anything at any time, we do not push you into material you aren't ready for, we notice and name activation in the body before it becomes overwhelm, and we build a way to close every session down safely so you can go back to your life. It is not permission to move slowly for its own sake; it is a discipline that makes the harder work possible. ## Stabilization before processing — always. The single biggest reason trauma work goes badly is that clinicians rush to processing before the client has the resources to survive it. We don't do that here. The first phase — sometimes weeks, sometimes months, sometimes longer for complex or developmental trauma — is about assessment, education about how trauma actually works in the brain and body, and building concrete regulation skills: grounding, breathwork, a felt sense of safety, containment tools, and a support structure outside sessions. Only when those are reliably in place do we approach the harder material. Skipping this step is not efficiency; it's re-injury. ## Why we don't start by asking you to retell the worst thing. Retelling a traumatic event in detail before the nervous system is prepared to handle it is one of the fastest ways to make PTSD worse. It reinforces the loop instead of resolving it. Trauma-informed work approaches memory carefully and often obliquely — through titration (working with a small slice at a time), pendulation (moving between the difficult material and a resource), body-based awareness, and structured protocols like EMDR that don't require detailed narration. You may or may not ever tell the whole story out loud in a session. The work is not conditional on doing so. ## The tools we use inside this frame. EMDR for reprocessing specific traumatic memories once you're ready — see the EMDR page for the details of how that actually works and what a session looks like. Somatic grounding and nervous-system regulation drawn from Polyvagal-informed practice. Trauma-focused cognitive-behavioral therapy for the beliefs and meaning-making that hardened around the event. Psychodynamic work when the trauma is developmental — patterns laid down in childhood by the way you were treated rather than by one identifiable incident. The mix is chosen by what you're bringing, not by what the clinician prefers to sell. ## You control the pace, and 'slow' is often the fastest route. Clients often arrive wanting to fix this fast — one hard month of intensive work and be done. That impulse is understandable and, for most trauma, wrong. Trauma processing has a rhythm: open the material, work with it, close it down, live your life for a week, come back. Trying to accelerate that rhythm usually causes dysregulation between sessions and a stall in the work overall. Steady, weekly, well-paced work is faster in aggregate than intensive work that keeps blowing you out. ## Who this fits, how long it takes, and how to start. Adults with PTSD from a specific event or set of events, complex or developmental trauma, distressing memories that intrude on daily life, and grief with a traumatic component. Teens where trauma is a primary driver of symptoms, with age-appropriate adaptations. For a single-incident trauma in an otherwise stable adult, six months of weekly work is a reasonable expectation. For complex or developmental trauma, a year or more is typical. Fees are $195 intake, $155 per session; in-network with Aetna and BCBS-NC; [in-person](/locations) in [Siler City](/locations/siler-city) or by [telehealth](/telehealth-north-carolina) anywhere in North Carolina. Many families combine this work with [parent coaching](/service/parent-coaching) or [parent counseling](/service/parent-counseling). If you're not sure where to begin, [reach out for a free consultation](/contact) and we'll figure out the right starting point together. FAQ ## Common questions. ### Will I have to describe what happened in detail? No, not as a requirement. Some of the protocols we use — EMDR in particular — do not require detailed retelling. When and how you talk about the specifics of what happened is your call, worked out with the clinician. ### How is this different from the EMDR page? PTSD and trauma counseling is the overall service — a way of working with trauma that includes stabilization, education, regulation, and processing. EMDR is one of the tools inside that frame. Some clients here use EMDR; others don't. See the EMDR page for how that specific modality works. ### I've done trauma therapy before and it made me worse. Will this? That usually means processing was attempted before the nervous system was resourced to handle it. The structure here is different — stabilization comes first, and we don't move into harder material until you have the tools to work with it and close it back down. ### How long does trauma work take? For a single incident in an otherwise stable adult, several months of weekly work is realistic. For complex or developmental trauma — trauma laid down over years — a year or more is a normal expectation. We'll set expectations together at intake and revisit them as we go. Related ## Also on this site. [ ![A parent and young child sitting side by side at a kitchen table, working through a problem together.](/__l5e/assets-v1/ddcecca6-2f79-4efa-8488-6b9b9e24baa4/Parent-Coaching.jpg) ### Parent Coaching Practical tools and strategies to improve behavior, reduce conflict, and foster stronger parent-child relationships. 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